Praying for Your Child’s Future Mate

No matter how young or old your child may be, NOW is the time to pray for their future mate. I don’t understand (and please don’t ask me  to explain!) what occurs in the spiritual realm when we intercede in prayer and how that affects what’s happening in our lives or others’—but I do know we’ve  been given these instructions:

[box]“Devote yourselves to prayer . . .  praying at the same time for us as well, that God will open up to us a door . .  .” (Col. 4:1–3). [/box]

[box]“Pray for one another . . . The  effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much” (James 5:16). [/box]

With that in mind, I thought I’d share a few things you  might consider as you pray for your child’s future mate:

  • Ask God to open their eyes to the gospel and bring them to salvation at an early age (2 Cor. 4:3–6)
  • Pray that his/her heart would be completely captivated by the beauty of Christ (Luke 10:39, 42)
  • Ask God to establish him/her in truth and spiritual discernment (Ephesians 5:6–13;  Colossians 1:9–12; 2:8)
  • Pray for him/her to live the crucified life  (Galatians 2:20; Romans 12:1–2)
  • Pray for him/her to love purity and flee  immorality (2 Timothy 2:19–22; Ephesians 5:3–5)
  • Ask God to surround him/her with means for spiritual training and growth (2 Timothy 1:5; 3:15–17)
  • Pray for the cultivation of spiritual fruit in his/her life (Galatians 5:16–26)

In addition to praying for our children and their mates, we need to ask God to work in our own hearts as well. We need Him to prepare us to  receive them in loving acceptance as new members of our family.

How have you seen God answer your prayers for your child’s future mate?

Originally posted 06.09.11 at