How Content are You?

When I encourage women to cultivate contentment, I’m talking about developing a heart that is grateful for God’s gracious gifts, being satisfied by what He’s provided, and living with an understanding of His sovereignty that prevents us from falling into the trap of murmuring and complaining about our circumstances.

Are you a contented woman?

One good test is to see how many times a day you verbalize gratitude or thankfulness in comparison to how much you complain.

Observing someone like the Apostle Paul, who is obviously content while experiencing difficult circumstances, is helpful and inspiring. The statement below literally blows me away when I realize what was happening when Paul said this:

[box]“Not that I speak from want, for I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances I am.” (Philippians 4:11)[/box]

Have you ever stopped to picture where the apostle Paul was when he made this statement?

In a Roman prison awaiting trial.

Think about what he was experiencing when he penned these familiar words. Paul was a godly man, but his ability to walk in contentment was not due to some superior saintliness or mystical endowment.

Paul “learned” contentment, just like I have to learn contentment.

He cultivated a contented heart by viewing his circumstances through the lens of God’s sovereignty.

Paul’s circumstances were hardly comfortable or something he would have chosen! Unless you have a friend or family member in prison, you may not have thought about all the freedoms inmates lose during incarceration. The isolation of prison is not limited to separation from family and friends but it includes giving up simple, every day choices.

Freedom of choice is a distant memory: meals, schedule, room temperature, wall color, clothing preference, environment, activities—these are all chosen for you.

I’ve met inmates who are hard, bitter, and resentful, spending their life in anger over their circumstances. In contrast to those, I’ve met some beautiful women who, although behind bars, radiate a joy and freedom seldom seen in women living on the outside—in the “free world.”

How do you explain such a stark contrast between inmates behind the same prison walls?

Miserable, dark, angry countenances filled with sullen resentment, reveal the fact that these women are discontented with their situation.

Who can blame them?

Who could be content in prison?

Only those who find true freedom in Christ. Only those who live, walk, and breathe gratitude, trusting that God can cause “all things to work together for good” (Romans 8:28).

After spending the first portion of his letter in thankfulness and prayer for his fellow believers, Paul expressed his God-centered perspective on his imprisonment:

I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard and to all the rest that my imprisonment is for Christ. And most of the brothers, having become confident in the Lord by my imprisonment, are much more bold to speak the word without fear (Philippians 1:12–14).

Do you hear Paul’s perspective?

He was looking beyond the pain, past the difficulty of imprisonment. His view was formed from trust in an almighty, sovereign God. Paul knew that God could use his situation to accomplish a greater work: he was penning Scripture while in prison, he was encouraging others as they watched him experience JOY in difficulty. He was learning to appreciate the lessons he was learning in the school of suffering.

Take Time to Reflect

Are you a contented woman? If not, why not?

Do you see a correlation between your contentment level and your trust of God?

Read Philippians 1–2 and notice Paul’s many references to humility, joy, and personal conduct.

What do you need to apply to your life from today’s post?


  • Darcie

    I have to be honest that contentment is at times a daily struggle. I strive to be in a continual place of having a contentment and peace that comes only from Jesus but I find I faulter when I am under a lot of stress at work, or when I am undergoing alot of medical testing. It is an area that is a work in progress. I am thankful the Lord surrounds me with christians, who even when they are the midst of life’s struggles or are in great physical pain, teach me by example how to find contenment in the Lord regardless of the circumstance they are in. As I read your blog, I thought about Matthew 6:21-“For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” I trust that as my daily relationship with the Trinity cultivates, and as long as my eyes remain vertical towards heaven, the Lord will do the work within, and like Paul, I will find joy in serving the Lord, and contentment regardless of circumstance. I am so grateful that the Lord is no respector of persons, that what He faithfully does in one person, He’ll do in another. And just like what God did in the men and woman of the Bible, He does in us today…..”But we all, with unveiled face,beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, just as by the Spirit of the Lord.” (2 Corinthians 3:18)

  • Kimberly Wagner

    So true, Darcie ~

    I am thankful for His faithfulness to continue the refining work He begins in us. Thank you so much for sharing, your heart — beautiful insights!

    Looking expectantly with an unveiled face ~