Failed Again?

“It’s not that Jesus can’t satisfy—you’ve just not tasted deeply enough!”

This is my reply to those struggling with the “whys” of doubt that come after another discouraging defeat—the woman who’s been addicted to “cutting” since her teens, the college student who keeps falling prey to porn, the former meth addict that caves to the pull of her old lifestyle. Tripping and falling can happen a lot in the early stages of the Christian life—especially if you’ve got long-running and deeply embedded habits.

Don’t listen to two common lies of the enemy:

  • Christ is not sufficient to bring satisfaction.

If you keep getting tripped up by the same old sin, it could be that you’ve only nibbled around the edges but not tasted deeply of Christ.  

O taste and see that the LORD is good; how blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him! (Psalm 34:8).

When I say “tasting deeply” of Christ, I’m encouraging you to:

♥ Climb into the heart and mind of Christ by saturating yourself in His thoughts.

Pour His Word into your mind. Memorize it. Meditate on it. Look deeply for His purpose in communicating those particular statements. Ask Him questions about it. Ask Him how He wants it applied to your life.

“If Your law had not been my delight, then I would have perished in my affliction. I will never forget Your precepts, for by them You have revived me.” (Psalm 119:92–93)

Drink and eat His Word.

That’s the best way to get to know Him.

When you consume His Word you’re living in His thoughts.

♥ Taste deeply of Christ by clinging to Him when hit with temptation.

“The Lord knows how to rescue the godly from temptation …” (2 Peter 2:9).

Cry out to Him when you see the temptation coming. Don’t walk through the door of temptation, but run to Him for safety. Allow Him to rescue you by turning to Him and asking for help!

♥ Taste deeply through fasting and prayer.

Fasting is not a real popular topic, but it’s a biblical (and much needed) practice. Fasting involves all components of life. It affects us physically, mentally, emotionally, and especially spiritually. Fasting allows me to set a defining moment within my daily routine, where I’m drawing a line in the sand to say: this period of seeking God is more important than . . . (fill in the blank with whatever you are fasting from at that time).

Fasting is a small act of “denying self” that promotes much needed humiliation and provides added time for seeking God in prayer with a focused agenda.

I’ve benefitted from extended seasons of fasting from: food, types of media or entertainment, and the regular fast (one day of the week) from the Internet. I’ve even taken a fast from talking on one occasion!

If you’re interested in reading more about prayer, I hope you’ll click here to check out a post from the archives. And there are several links at the bottom of that blog article that will take you to additional posts on prayer.

♥ Taste deeply by focusing on what Christ did on the cross.

That sin you’re attracted to . . . that seductively lures you and seems so innocent when you’re intoxicated with desire . . . you know the one I’m talking about?

Got it pictured in your mind right now?

Jesus shed blood to cover that sin.

Do you think about the blood He spilled?

When I focus on the horrific cost of my sin, it loses its appeal.

Let us also lay aside every weight, and sin which clings so closely, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking to Jesus, the founder and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is seated at the right hand of the throne of God.

Consider him who endured from sinners such hostility against himself, so that you may not grow weary or fainthearted. In your struggle against sin you have not yet resisted to the point of shedding your blood. (Hebrews 12:1 –4)

♥ Taste deeply enough that His love for you, and your love for Him, defeats the power of sin.

No one . . . No one . . . NO ONE loves you like He does.

Do you know that?

Do you realize that?

Let that truth soak in. Let it really go down deep. Ask Him to help you understand and appreciate His love and then ask Him to give you more love to give back to Him.

Let your love for Him grow to such an extent that it outgrows your love for sin.

Are you struggling in your Christian walk?

Have you become discouraged by your lack of endurance?

How much joy are you experiencing?

Consider whether you’ve tasted deeply of Christ.

Allow Him to be your sweet reward. Talk to Him about your desire to move beyond nibbling at the edges of knowing and experiencing Him, and ask Him to allow you to taste deeply of Him.

Let’s pray for one another today. May we enjoy the grace and beauty of holiness that comes through abiding in Christ.

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  • Katie

    Thank you for this eye opener and reminder today. Whew…this really hit me deep, underneath all those layers ive buried and have been refusing to deal with. This actually took my breath away, and made me dumbstruck. (I was basically put in my place). Please pray that I allow (be opened to and give up the reigns as it were) His Spirit and love to once again start the healing process, where the wounds are still so fresh, even years later. I have a defensive and protective habit to throw up a wall/barrier when it gets too painful or tough. Thank you again Kimberly, your posts minister to me in ways I’ve not experienced, and are so encouraging.

  • Kimberly Wagner

    Hello, Katie ~

    Isn’t God good? He gives us just what we need, when we need it! So thankful He spoke to you through the post and thankful for your responsive heart. May you experience that healing you long for! God is able (Eph. 3:20).

    Blessings, friend ~