Making a Bold Accusation Against God

Have you ever stood up to make a bold accusation against God? I doubt you’ve voiced it. But I’m guilty of this far more times than I realize. Did you know that every complaint we utter is a reflection of our heart’s attitude toward God?

Complaining isn’t limited to the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad kind of days. Nope, complaining can happen pretty easily.

Are you a grumbler?

What about when you’re running late and the guy ahead of you is going 5 miles below the speed limit? What about when you notice how much is taken out of your check for taxes? What about when the waiter gets your order wrong? Or the price at the gas pump jumps sky-high (again)?

Complaining can become our natural default. Grumbling comes so naturally that it can happen without even realizing when we do it. Would you like to know how God views grumbling and complaining?

For me, one of the most instructive passages on this topic is from Numbers 11.

God’s people spent a year preparing for their wilderness journey (of course, they didn’t realize when they set out that it would become a 40-year journey!). When the tabernacle was prepared, when all the people were numbered and given their assignments, when all the necessary commandments of God were conveyed, the people headed out.

Three days into their journey they are singing God’s praises, grateful to be delivered from slavery, rejoicing that the cloud of the Lord is leading them to their promised land, and in awe of the fact that God is going with them via the tabernacle! Right?

Wait. Scratch that. This is not at all what happened.

Look what happened three days into their journey:

[box]Now the people became like those who complain of adversity in the hearing of the LORD; and when the LORD heard it, His anger was kindled, and the fire of the LORD burned among them and consumed some of the outskirts of the camp. (Numbers 11:1)[/box]

Grumbling and complaining . . . that’s what was happening. There weren’t any praise songs and no worship was going on. Awe and gratitude was not filling hearts. Nope, just lots of grumbles, that’s what was happening.

Paul tells us that this was written down as an example for us, to warn and instruct us to not be guilty of the same evil.

Does God’s reaction to grumbling seem a little extreme to you?

Setting things on fire?

I’m certainly thankful He doesn’t deal with us the same way today. I would’ve been toast long ago!

Why did God react so strongly to their complaining?

Because ingratitude lies at the heart of complaining.  And ingratitude is an attitude that accuses God of acting unjustly. Complaining flows out of an ungrateful heart. Complaining about my circumstances says that I don’t like God’s plan for the day. Or His plan my life.

Complaining is a bold accusation against God’s goodness.

Ingratitude is my natural reaction to the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad kind of days . . . but that kind of day isn’t beyond the scope of what God has seen is good for me. And God provides me with a fresh reminder of this when I look at His “all things” message to me. Don’t relegate this familiar verse to the category of “trite sayings” just because you may’ve heard it a million times.

Can you walk through this verse and consider its implications for the worst day you can imagine?

[box]And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose. For those whom he foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, in order that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. (Romans 8:28–29)[/box] 

What greater privilege than to be “conformed to the image of his Son”! I want that. Getting there can be painful. The squeezing and pruning that’s necessary for the beautiful conforming work to happen is something that I naturally struggle against. But I want to be conformed to that image. And it won’t happen if I’m grumbling about it.

The conforming won’t happen to a heart that’s wallowing in ingratitude.

What I do with those “terrible, horrible, no good, very bad” kind of days? How do I walk through that kind of day without complaining?

My heart has to change. Ingratitude must be rooted out. Ingratitude can be effectively demolished by gratitude. When I’m thankful for His every gift, ingratitude and evil craving is swallowed in the wake of thanksgiving.

[box]Every good thing given and every perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shifting shadow. (James 1:17)[/box]

[box]In everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus. (1 Thess. 5:18)[/box]

Gratitude thrives in the heart that visits the cross often:

[box]For you have been called for this purpose, since Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example for you to follow in His steps, WHO COMMITTED NO SIN, NOR WAS ANY DECEIT FOUND IN HIS MOUTH; and while being reviled, He did not revile in return; while suffering, He uttered no threats, but kept entrusting Himself to Him who judges righteously; and He Himself bore our sins in His body on the cross, so that we might die to sin and live to righteousness; for by His wounds you were healed. (1 Peter 2:21–24)[/box]

Going to the cross and focusing on the forgiveness I’ve been shown by a sinless Savior, remembering His sacrifice (for me!), gives me the only perspective that will smash my wicked grumbling and complaining. Going to the cross takes a heart hardened by ingratitude and breaks it. Going to the cross reminds me of what really matters, so I can release the stuff that really doesn’t.

Going to the cross lets me see the example of my Savior who suffered—but never grumbled. He was beaten—but never complained. He was unjustly attacked—but placed His trust in His Father’s care.

The passages in Numbers and 1 Peter, are given as an example of how our hearts can choose to respond to difficulty.

What kind of day are you having?

How are you responding?

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  • Becky Arnold

    I am immediately convicted and challenged by this post. Yes, it is ingratitude, but my heart hurts that I’ve indicted God in the process. My daily prayer will be for God to give me a grateful heart and a mouth that reflects that heart! Thanks, Kim, for the words that God is using to mold and shape me.

  • Julie Musil

    Convicted!! I tell ya, I just had a good lesson in this last night. I had a doctors appointment at 3:40. She didn’t see me until almost 5. After the first thirty minutes I began to inwardly grumble. I never did complain outwardly but inside there was a war going on! But I calmed myself with the reminder that I wasn’t there for anything horrible, and that I was sitting and reading a magazine. Definitely not a hardship.

    Thanks for helping us see the bigger picture about how this is an accusation against God. I didn’t think of it that way!